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  • sadie jones: the outcast: a novel

    sadie jones: the outcast: a novel
    what is it with me picking really dark books at the moment? isn't there anything out there that is happy? (***)

  • andrew bavidson: the gargoyle

    andrew bavidson: the gargoyle
    dark, dark and more dark. i should have figured this out from the blackened book spine. good, thought provoking. not sure i would recommend it. (**)

  • stephenie meyer: breaking dawn

    stephenie meyer: breaking dawn
    didn't go to the usa as planned so had to buy this in hardback. (****)

  • rohinton mistry: a fine balance

    rohinton mistry: a fine balance
    my friend kelly warned me this was sad. without that warning i'm not sure i could have taken it, but knowing this, i really loved this book. mistry has an amazing ability to help you see why it's important to try to view things from another person's perspective. (*****)

  • stephenie meyer: eclipse

    stephenie meyer: eclipse
    yep still enjoying these. (****)

  • stephenie meyer: new moon

    stephenie meyer: new moon
    once i got started, i had to finish the saga...i saw someone say this made them wish they were 13 again and i have to agree. it's very well done. (****)

  • kate furnivall: the russian concubine

    kate furnivall: the russian concubine
    while i got a little confused between the characters for the first half of this book, and i wished i had a little more political context, i enjoyed this. set in pre-revolutionary china, this looks at a russian girl who falls in love with a chinese communist. (***)

  • stephenie meyer: twilight (the twilight saga, book 1)

    stephenie meyer: twilight (the twilight saga, book 1)
    i had four people recommend this over a two day period so when i saw it in the airport bookstore i picked it up. having liked buffy, i really enjoyed it and have now bought book 2. (****)

  • jane harris: the observations

    jane harris: the observations
    despite a relatively distracting voice, bessy--the protagonist in this story--grows on you and i enjoyed this story despite its flaws. (***)

  • sara gruen: water for elephants: a novel

    sara gruen: water for elephants: a novel
    four or five friends recommended this book before i wrote off to amazon to order it. i can understand why it has a viral following. it's great--good writing, gripping story, solid characters. well worth reading and my favourite new book of 2008. (*****)

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    conversations with a 3-year-old

    maddie: i am buzz lightyear and daddy is woody.
    me: who am i?
    maddie: you're potato head.

    maddie: can i see that picture up there? (pointing at photo of cake cutting at our wedding)
    me: sure (bringing it down)
    maddie: where are you and daddy?
    me: at our wedding, this is when we got married.
    maddie: was i there?
    me: no...
    maddie: i was in your tummy, wasn't i?
    me: no not at that point...
    maddie: where was i then?

    me: maddie, aunt samantha and uncle josh have a new baby, sterling. isn't that great? you have a new cousin.
    maddie: do they still have baby jennings?

    maddie: (seeing my cardkey from work, which i only work when i go into the office) mummy, you have a badge. are you working in reading? i have a badge too, it's from legoland

    laundry basket


    laundry basket
    Originally uploaded by john yaya.

    my friends heidi and john have had twin boys, henry and jake.

    how cute are they?

    working at home is not "lovely"

    i work at home a lot. my team is distributed; my manager is in the states, and most days, i spend quite a few hours on the phone. so it doesn't matter much where i work, as long as i do. this has its upsides, the most positive of which is that i don't have much of a commute: once i do the school run, i can come back home and get straight to work. however, in case you are under the impression that working at home is lying in a hammock and drinking ice tea all day--a myth that seems prevalent--let me be clear: working at home is work.

    about once a week someone calls me on my home number, either expecting to get voice mail or trying to reach my husband, and i answer. the conversation that follows is "oh are you working at home today?" i say "yes." they say something like "oh how lovely." it reminds me of my mom and her perception of england. whenever she visits she gushes on and on about how wonderful, green and gorgeous it is here. rich and i have to remind her that we don't all live in thatched cottages, wear hats and have high tea each day. don't get me wrong, i love england. but when you live here you see all the scratches and scabs.

    here are the scratches and scabs of working at home:

    1) when i don't commute, i have more hours to work. which is great. but again, it's more hours of work. not more time to relax.

    2) i often don't have good food in for lunch, and as there is unfortunately no cafeteria here, i often resort to peanut butter and jelly or miss lunch altogether. again this means more time to work.

    3) when i do take time for lunch, it's true that i can also throw a load of clothes in the wash. but that's more work too.

    so. i like working at home and am glad to have the flexibility it offers. before you ask to work at home, think about what you're asking for.

    holiday visit

    my mom and dad came for a 10-day visit just after christmas. it was fantastic to see them.

    Maddie with grandparents

    friendship in translation

    Bram and maddie at the flower stand 

    back in september, we spent a fun weekend in amsterdam with our friends bram and angelique and their little boy. madeline and little bram got along like a house on fire, despite not speaking the same language.

    snippets

    my friend lainie is not only an expert scrapbooker but also a published author. well done lain!

    within the lines

    madeline, who turns three in a month and a half, has inherited richard's artistic skills.

    watching

    it's just after midnight in the uk, and richard and i--armed with strong coffee (him) and jetlag (me)--are up for the long haul, watching the results come in from the historic us elections. our tv is tuned to traditional coverage, but we are occasionally turning to solid news sources such as the war for the white house when david dimbleby and the repetitive multi-touch gizmos on the bbc become a bit too much to take. mind you, the bbc is currently interviewing ricky gervais, who may be clueless about us politics but is a welcome  break from the political pundits generally on offer.

    i sent my vote into the state of washington by absentee ballot weeks ago and am a proud supporter of obama. may the best man win.

    next june

    popluffieldastand_cac4

    those of you who are not formula one fans will probably be scratching your heads, wondering why one would spend a fortune to watch cars go around and around on a track, but ten years with richard has made me a bona fide f1 fan. so i'm thrilled to say we will be watching the final british grand prix at silverstone from our very own reserved seats next season.

    in celebration

    tomorrow i am running in the adidas women's challenge. this year i am running in support of bowel cancer uk, a charity dedicated to raising awareness of bowel cancer (colon cancer), improving the quality of life of those affected by the disease, and reducing deaths from this very common form of cancer.

    those who know me know that we have had a tough year health-wise in our family. when i signed up for this run, earlier in the year, my father-in-law had just been diagnosed with bowel cancer and was undergoing chemotherapy and radiation. in july, he had surgery, and only last month he learned the fantastic news that he is now cancer free. i am running in honor of malcolm and in celebration of his recovery.

    i know budgets are tight this year and many of you have been asked to donate to other runs, bike rides and other events for other equally worthy causes. but if you have the means or inclination, please visit my justgiving page and donate online.

    fingers crossed it doesn't rain!

    past places

    • remember
      these are memories from places in my past

    see maddie grow

    • 20090613_Year3
      weekly photos of madeline eleanor, born 19 december 2005

    holiday in egypt

    • At_medinet_habu
      our adventure in cairo and luxor: march 2008

    push puppets

    • Pluto
      a small selection from my ever-growing toy collection